Friends Like This Change Everything

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Aaron and Hur held his hands up – one on one side, one on the other – so that his hands remained steady until sunset. (Exodus 17:12b)

After the Lord had delivered the Israelites from slavery in Egypt they spent 40 years in the desert. During that time God provided for them both miraculously and practically. One practical way God moved was through His people.

Much like today.

Moses was God’s chosen leader, but many others were used as well. We see this demonstrated in Exodus 17 when a savage, nomadic tribe called the Amalekites attacked the Israelites. The Amalekites lived in in the desert region near the Dead Sea and were quick to destroy anyone who got in their space. I imagine that when they went into battle with the Israelites they had no idea that if they messed with Moses and his traveling companions they were messing with the all-powerful, unstoppable army of the Lord!

Here’s the way it went down…

The Amalekites came and attacked the Israelites at Rephidim. Moses said to Joshua, “Choose some of our men and go out to fight the Amalekites. Tomorrow I will stand on top of the hill with the staff of God in my hands.”

            So Joshua fought the Amalekites as Moses had ordered, and Moses, Aaron and Hur went to the top of the hill. As long as Moses held up his hands, the Israelites were winning, but whenever he lowered his hands, the Amalekites were winning. When Moses’ hands grew tired, they took a stone and put it under him and he sat on it. Aaron and Hur held his hands up—one on one side, one on the other—so that his hands remained steady till sunset. So Joshua overcame the Amalekite army with the sword. (Exodus 17:8-13)

This enemy was defeated because a group of like-minded believers stuck together and took action. A community of friends and family rallied… grabbing a stone for their friend and hunkering down beside him during the battle. Held his hands up for hours. And didn’t leave his side until the conflict was over.

Most of these Israelites weren’t warriors – they were just like you and me – people of trade, fresh from captivity, and hopeful for a bright future. Normals, not heroes.

They didn’t win this particular battle because of their amazing war skills. They won this battle because they did what God told them to do. They had access to God, they looked to Him for help, and they worked together on behalf of His people.

Like the Israelites, you and I have full access to God and can ask Him for help in times of trouble.

We can also partner with believers to win battles and achieve great things too.

When the enemy attacks hard I need reliable friends who have my back and are willing to do battle on my behalf, like Moses had. I’m thankful to have a handful of girlfriends and a prayer team that hits their knees when I write, travel, dream and struggle. I’ve witnessed their prayers move the hand of God.

Likewise, when my friends or church leaders are in the thick of it, they need others (including me) to join them in the spiritual battles. As an elder’s wife, I’ve felt the strain that church leaders feel constantly and cannot overstate the importance of lifting up our pastors and women’s ministry leaders in prayer.

We get attacked on all fronts: emotionally, relationally, socially, and financially.

Lies assault us, toxic conversations break us down, temptations vie for our honor… the list is endless. Every conflict we face has a spiritual component. And when these attacks come our way (daily) it’s essential that we surround ourselves, and our friends, with prayer.

Taking a cue from Moses, I see an opportunity. Why don’t you and I choose a few friends to do prayer-battle with today?

Let’s move forward with our eyes wide open to the invisible attacks coming our way and partner up with one or a few who will join us in pulling up a stone, holding each others’ hands up, and bending knees low.

Dear Lord,
Thank You for giving me access to unending grace and strength through Your Son, Jesus Christ. You are my Refuge, my Help, and my Hope. I am so grateful that when my days are filled with battles that You are right beside me – and that You have given me friends to join me on the front lines. Please open my eyes to see the needs around me and to step up as a friend.
In Jesus’ name, Amen.



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Comments 4

  1. Give a kind word when needed, of course pray for or with that person , and be helpful when necessary. Just be a friend!

  2. I was pray fully thinking what can I do to encourage my friend who lost her husband. I’ve been calling her and checking up on them. Made meals and surprise visits. To let her know she’s not alone.

  3. One thing I’m doing today is taking dinner to a family that recently lost their baby. They are grieving and need their friends around them and in prayer.
    I also pray for these kinds of girlfriends. It’s been a long time since I’ve had a true friend to go and do things with. I have friends, but the longing for a good girlfriend is there.

  4. One practical thing I can do is to be the Prayer Warrior that I wish to be. Write down names and needs. Keep track of answered prayers. Stand firmly against the forces of evil in this world. Be the woman of God He desires me to be. THAT is what I can do.

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