Living Out Love

Gwen Smith Blog, Christian Living, Love, Parenting 4 Comments

I had been reading through the book of Luke and freshly looking at how Jesus interacted with people. How he responded to their interruptions. How he reacted to their pain. How he met their spiritual, emotional, and physical needs. Jesus was quite the man of action.

When people encountered Jesus they were changed and challenged, healed and helped. They longed for His presence in each town and looked for His purpose in each teaching.

Jesus fed the hungry, healed the diseased and paralyzed, ate with sinners, cared for the children, and just plain showed compassion in crazy-practical ways. What an amazing picture of love. A perfect picture of love. Perfect love: Jesus.

Perfect love cares.

Perfect love makes time for the interruptions of life.

Perfect love meets the physical needs of others.

Perfect love shows compassion to souls that are darkened by despair.

You and I are called to this mission as well, because we’re commanded to love our neighbor as ourselves.

The word Christian simply means “Christ follower.” I’m a Christian woman. I trust in Jesus and love Him with all my heart and soul. He has forgiven me of much. Even so, in light of seeing the way Jesus lived and loved on this earth, I have to reflect and wonder … how active is my faith?

Are those around me surprised by the love I show?

Am I a work-horse for Jesus?

Am I ministering to my community through service?

Am I sharing the hope of Christ with those who are lost or hurting, and am I looking for opportunities to bless others in practical ways?

Those are some seriously challenging questions – because this perfect love thing is totally hard!

This challenge flies in the face of my natural compulsion to be self-absorbed. It contradicts everything that Hollywood would try to sell us as “the IT life.” It’s political, yet non-partisan. It sears past policies to flesh and blood. It touches and feels.

The perfect love of Jesus transcends socio-economics, race, politics, religion and denomination.

Ours should too.

I’m compelled by these demonstrated actions of Christ and am challenged to become more pro-active in social God-causes. I want to be more of a Christ-follower with my actions … not just with my words … and not just within the body of Christ.

You too?

“After this the Lord appointed seventy-two others and sent them two by two ahead of Him to every town and place where He was about to go. He told them “The harvest is plentiful, but the workers are few. Ask the Lord of the harvest to send out workers into His harvest field.” (Luke 10:1-2)

Several years ago while my heart was swirling in the depth of this, our neighborhood was having one of those blow-out, everybody’s-doing-it garage sales. With this new call to action burning in my belly, I rallied my gang (husband, kids and puppy) to set up a water/soda stand to raise some money for a local charity.

While this may sound somewhat noble and exciting, I assure you, it was a total battle.

My precious little suburban kids fought me the whole way to the curb and tested my love-o-meter to the max. Quite frankly, I wanted to fold up my card table, put away the signs that I had painstakingly made of poster board and marker, write a personal check to the charity and call it a day. (They still would’ve gotten their money and I would’ve had less stress for a few hours.)

Yet in the tangled middle of my frustration, I felt God nudge my heart.

I was reminded that in order to reach people for Jesus I needed to serve others.

Now, I could’ve closed down our fundraiser when the grumbles came, but I’m glad I didn’t. My family and I would’ve missed out on the tremendous lessons that God taught us that day.


#1. Our time is a treasure and we are responsible to spend it wisely. (We don’t need to be money-rich to give to others or to the LORD.)

#2. When we invest our time in blessing and helping others, God is glorified and the dividends boomerang back to bless us.

#3. Our children learn giving and serving when we lead and model it.

#4. $172 can be raised in a few short hours to help local homeless children by selling water and soda!! {Yeah!}

#5. Comfortable Christian children need to experience life beyond themselves more often!

#6. Comfortable Christian adults need to experience life beyond themselves more often … so that the world around us can SEE the love of Christ through our ACTIONS.

Let’s ask the Lord of the harvest to open our eyes to daily opportunities, and choose to move beyond comfort to serve and care for the people He points us to love.

Heavenly Father,
Thank you for demonstrating that perfect love serves. Thank you for reminding me that I am called to be an active harvester for you. Please equip me for the task. Help me to reflect Your perfect love. Use me to meet physical, emotional and spiritual needs of hurting people in my community and around the world.
In Jesus’ Name I pray, amen.



What you are currently doing to serve God? Does your service extend beyond the body of Christ to the un-churched, unhealthy and underprivileged?

Pray and seek God’s leading. Ask Him to show you new ways to live His love. Plan something! Here are a few suggestions…

CALL the local retirement community to find out how you can help out. Then do it.

CHECK with a homeless shelter and inquire about their needs. Then fill some.

VOLUNTEER for your local Food Pantry. Or drop off a bag of food.

BABYSIT for a single mom at your church. Make a meal for her and the kids. Give them a gas card or a grocery gift card.

CARE FOR a widow… adopt an orphan – or even a college student!

SPONSOR a child through Compassion International to connect a child living in poverty with medical check-ups, nutritious food, health and hygiene training, educational assistance, mentoring, and an opportunity for your sponsored child to hear about Jesus Christ an be encouraged to develop a lifelong relationship with God.

Got a great idea? I’d love to hear about it. Click here to share your thoughts below.

Have an awesome day, friend!


PS… Speaking of love, My son Preston got engaged this weekend!!! Woohooo!! #fromsmithdayforward (You can see more awesome pics on my INSTAGRAM)



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Comments 4

  1. Thank you for sharing this encouraging message. I pray for more ways to serve the Lord each day. I thank you from the bottom of my heart. God bless you.

  2. Thanks for sharing. We sometimes start to do things because we enjoy them but they’re also things that help others. I volunteer at the neighborhood hunger center and I also am with a volunteer group that does skits at senior citizen residences. It’s so amazing to see the faces of the seniors light up when they see us.

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  3. This is not my original idea. I heard it at a church teaching once and it struck me as a way of putting Christian faith in action. A group of church ladies adopted the women at the local XXX dancing parlor. (They also worked to shut it down; but in the meantime…). They babysat, took them food, grocery & gas cards, Bibles, and Christian charity in action. They got push-back from the owner, but they persisted. They rescued a few of the women from that lifestyle and then continued to help them turn their lives around. Now that was faith in action!!

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